Sunday, July 31, 2011

Compliments

I've heard somewhere that it's an unwritten rule that you're suppose to compliment at least three people everyday. It makes the three people feel better, and it will make you feel better too.
Today after church I came back to my apartment and I wasn't feeling too well. I took a couple ibuprofen, but nothing was happening for a while. I lied down to take a nap, and after that I felt a little better. But I still had to get up and get ready for work, and I really didn't feel like going. I wanted to sleep more and I was scared me being sick would come back and I would have a horrible time at work. On top of all that, I just wasn't really in the mood to work. I didn't want to be around people and I didn't want to fake nice to customers checking out in my line.
Right when I arrived at work was when I thought of what I had learned a long time ago about complimenting three people everyday. I hadn't complimented anyone yet! I decided it would make me feel better and possibly make the time go by faster if I complimented each customer who checked out in my line. I didn't get every single customer, but I did find things to compliment on way more than half. Whether it was their earrings, shirt, bracelets, hair, hairbands, or just things they were about to buy, I tried my best to find something to compliment each person about.
It really worked. I felt tons better after the first couple people I complimented, and it only got better throughout the night. It was also a way for each customer to open up and have conversations with me. Which I always enjoy listening and learning more about people. When I complimented about earrings or shirts or something on them, they would tell me about where they got it or where it came from. If I complimented about something they were about to buy, they would tell me what they were about to use it for or why they needed a new one. It was a really neat experience, and I think I'm going to try it everyday from now on.

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